Understanding the Cycle of Abuse

clipped from thevictimsvoices.blogspot.com The cycle of violence in domestic abuse Domestic abuse falls into a common pattern, or cycle of violence: Abuse – Your abusive partner lashes out with aggressive, belittling, or violent behavior. The abuse is a power play designed to show you "who is boss." Guilt – After abusing you, your partner feels guilt, but not over what he's done. He’s more worried about the possibility of being caught and facing consequences for his abusive behavior. Set-up – Your abuser sets you up and puts his plan in motion, creating a situation where he can justify abusing you. Your abuser’s apologies and loving gestures in between the episodes of abuse can make it difficult to leave. He may make you believe that you are the only person who can help him, that things will be different this time, and that he truly loves you. However, the dangers of staying are very real.

America's 50s and Oregon's 30s Meet Up At Miss Oregon Preliminary

clipped from debragilmour.blogspot.com In support of a couple of little sister princesses participating in the Miss Lane County, Miss Linn Benton, Miss University of Oregon, and Lane County's Perfect Teen scholarship programs, I headed to Eugene, Oregon to cheer on the 40 plus ladies vying for their chance to go to the Miss Oregon Scholarship program later this summer. The house was packed as the families and friends of the contestants gathered to cheer for their contestants.  As it turned out, I was seated next to Britanee Buckingham's family who had a lot to celebrate at the end of a long evening. Congratulations to program executive director Nicole Akins for a fabulous event!  Good luck in Seaside, ladies!

My Dog Leia is a Cover Model!!

clipped from jademonfils.blogspot.com My Boston Terrier Leia made the cover of the Dallas Voice this week! It is because she was chosen out of 400 entries, and made Top 10 and was put online for voting. From there she had the most votes and was chosen to be on the cover!!

Photo Shoot with Dan Duverney

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Tactics of an Abuser

clipped from thevictimsvoices.blogspot.com Violent and abusive behavior is the abuser’s choice Despite what many people believe, domestic violence and abuse is not due to the abuser’s loss of control over his or her behavior. In fact, abusive behavior and violence is a deliberate choice made by the abuser in order to control you.

Bella Inspiration shoot

clipped from mrssoutherncalifornia.blogspot.com Yesterday my daughter and I met up with a dear and inspirational friend, Freida. She is such a great woman, we went to school together and haven't seen eachother since but kept up through Facebook. Freida is an amazing photographer and was able to capture awesome pictures of my daughter and I yesterday. I can't say enough about this woman, her nature is truly inspiring. She is following her dream and using her gift in a way that most of us don't have the ability... she just went for it and I know it's paying off.

Miss and Teen Ventura Intl. Pageant

clipped from mrscaliforniainternational2010.blogspot.com This past weekend I attended the 2011 Miss and Teen Ventura Intl. pageants. It was a wonderful event put on by Crowning Glory Productions. Hilary Gushwa former Miss California Intl. 2009 hosted the pageant. The contestants glowed on stage in their sequin tops as they danced to music from "Fame". Followed by fun fashion, fitness, gown presentation and the on stage question. I was so proud of all the girls they did an amazing job. It was great to see my sister queen: Miss Teen California Intl. 2010 Dedria Burnett and my wonderful Director Eddie Peterson. In the audience that night to support the Ventura Pageant were Gayle Tape, Director of the Bakersfield pageant and her titleholders Mrs. Bakersfield 2011: Megan Raymond and Miss Teen Bakersfield 2011: Mackenzie Carter. We made the trip together and it was great to spend time together. XOXO Ashley Pavletich

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OPEN CALLS - NEBRASKA & IOWA

clipped from namissrocks.blogspot.com That's right, the National American Miss Growing Confidence Tour is coming to a city near you!  We are searching for fresh faces across the country! f you are interested, or your daughter is interested in applying to attend this years Miss Nebraska or Miss Iowa pageant, and winning her share of $1.5 million dollars in cash, scholarships, and prizes.... call our State Pageant Office at We will be in the following cities on the following dates in Iowa and Nebraska:

Caitlyn's Closet: Miss Teen North Carolina International

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10 Pageant Song Ideas for Talent

I'm not sure I agree with "Somewhere over the Rainbow." Judy Garland nailed it. I cringe at pageants when I hear it...

clipped from thepageantplanet.com There is only one question when it comes to your on-stage talent and the panel of judges before you: Do I want to see it again? That is the mark of a great pageant talent no matter what you are doing. Whatever skills you take to the stage should entertain everyone in the house. That is your goal. Not all of your judges will be experts in your talent. However, anyone can appreciate a talent that is memorable. So remember, when choosing what to sing, dance to, or play, it’s about creating a bond between you and your audience in less than two minutes. Here are a few songs that have left an impression on me over the years. Hopefully, you can re-create and refresh one of them to make it your own! Good Luck! 1. Dream a Little Dream of Me 2. Somewhere Over the Rainbow 3. Think of Me 4. Defying Gravity 5. Greatest Love of All Pageant Dance Songs for Talent 6. Fever 7. Diamonds are a Girls Best Friend 8. My Strongest Suite Instrumental Pageant Song Ideas 9. Titanic Theme Song 10.  Make it up!

Oak Mountain Sophomore Crowned Miss Alabama’s Outstanding Teen

clipped from www.fourpointsmagazine.com Miss Alabama’s Outstanding Teen for 2010 was crowned on Sunday at Sylacauga High School.  Scarlett Walker, a sophomore at Oak Mountain High School, wowed the judges with a jazzy Ballet en Pointe. The contestants competed in a personal interview with the judges, talent, fitness, and evening gown.  With the title, Scarlett was awarded 4-year renewable full-tuition scholarships to her choice of Auburn University, the University of Alabama, Troy University, as well as a 1-year scholarship to Jacksonville State University.  She also received other cash scholarships and prizes.  Scarlett is the daughter of Mike and Angela Walker.    The Miss Alabama’s Outstanding Teen Pageant is part of the Miss America Organization.

Charlotte mom is Mrs. NC

clipped from www.charlotteobserver.com South Charlotte mom Cynthia Griner jokingly calls herself Queen of the Griner family. Now, this mom of four has the crown to back it up. Last month, Griner, 43, won Mrs. North Carolina International, a pageant that recognizes the accomplishments of married women. The actress, model and CEO of “Purple Passion 4 Alzheimer’s” will head to Chicago this summer to compete for the national crown. MomsCharlotte editor Jennifer Rothacker spoke with Griner about her win. Q. How did you get involved with pageants? I started back in 2007. I had turned 40 and we had just moved back (to Charlotte). I have four boys, and it was time to do something different. My grandfather had just died (from Alzheimer’s) … and to educate myself and others, I was able to use the pageants as a platform. Every time I had an ad in a (pageant) program book, it was a way to raise money for Alzheimer’s.

Charlotte Mom is Mrs. NC

clipped from mncips.blogspot.com South Charlotte mom Cynthia Griner jokingly calls herself Queen of the Griner family. Now, this mom of four has the crown to back it up. Last month, Griner, 43, won Mrs. North Carolina International, a pageant that recognizes the accomplishments of married women. The actress, model and CEO of “Purple Passion 4 Alzheimer’s” will head to Chicago this summer to compete for the national crown. MomsCharlotte editor Jennifer Rothacker spoke with Griner about her win. Read more: http://www.charlotteobserver.com/2010/03/17/1320439/charlotte-mom-is-mrs-nc.html#ixzz0icpeJxn0